Sunday, May 11, 2008

(updated) Monday again? Ok, maybe not... but it feels like today is a Monday!

(PLEASE READ ALL COMMENTS BELOW THIS BLOG! I REPLIED MANY TIMES!!)

Get ready to hop aboard for another journey on "The Rambling Train"... Yep, this is my way of saying you're in for a long read! (Many items... LONG OVERDUE!!)


You can thank a former contact of mine... well, I am not going to mention names at all in the blog. Anyway what she blogged about today has me FIRED UP!!

However, it's in a GOOD way... I guess I needed this push to get this all out!! So, hang on... you're in for the ride of your life! (LOL)

Before I start... This is a public blog & it is open to all comments... HOWEVER, please do not use FOUL language in your reply (or anywhere on my site)... or it will be deleted. This is your only warning. I feel, if you are that upset... you can
say it without the profanity OR use your own blog (as I am doing here)...

Do NOT even give a hint as to the word(s). I do not do it on yours (or others or even here on my own) & I'd appreciate it if you will NOT use such language on mine. I will not ask this again at the end... it's up to you to remember or re-read it, if necessary! You can feel free to voice your opinion about any or all of this... & you can be as fired up as I am... but you do not need to be obscene about it!


I have not ever hid, nor will I hide the fact that I am a Christian! I feel there are times we as Christians need to reach out to all no matter where they are!


With that said...


This all started today when I received a PM from someone saying they're deleting me because I am a part of Second Life (SL). It came to their attention yesterday that there are "Virtual Rape" areas in SL. This is according to a video blog by Kirsten Powers. (Yep, that's a link & set to open in a new window.) I want you to hear it for yourself!

I personally did NOT know there was such a thing... I knew there were things that were sexual areas if so desired. But I had NO clue that you could use your Linden dollars to "pay" to be raped; to rape someone; or just watch. That is SICK & APPALLING!!

I agree with this former friend that AREA should be shut down... HOWEVER, not ALL of SL! If you are going to take that view... then you might as well not stop there... Why not shut down the ENTIRE internet? There are areas just as crude & sicking. That show REAL LIFE rape...
I'm sure of it... TALK ABOUT SICK!! (though I personally have NOT seen them... nor will I go looking for it!)

Oh... let's not stop with the internet... let's shut down all the television programs too! So, no more Dancing With the Stars. No more Wheel of Fortune, or Weather Channel... or any other good shows like that... just because of some shows can't seem to clean up their act.

Ok, that I know is a bit extreme... but that's my point! There are websites that just as good!!! Like here... on Multiply! So, you can't always "judge a book by it's cover." (I'm sure there are some who abuse Multiply, too... does that mean we have to shut it down too?) Get my point yet????

Now, I am not saying that all of SL is good... nor am I saying all of it is bad! That I know for a fact. Because myself & 2 other friends have started up a group to witness to those who are...

1. New to SL. Provide basic SL training... how to use their avatar & etc.
2. Help guide the lost (in all sense of the word).
3. Minister to those in need of spiritual guidance. Whether it is from a Real Life or SL experience!
4. Provide a safe environment to "change clothes".
5. Teach others how they can earn money (called Lindens) with OUT

It all comes back to that question WWJD? What Would Jesus Do?

We also provide a note card with Safe, Bold & Extreme areas... so that they will not have to worry about "accidentally" running across such things. Rest assured... If we can figure out this one area, it will not only be added to the note card... but also, I will be reporting it. I think that is pushing the Freedom of Speech a bit to far!

Just so you know... there ARE ratings in SL... and they do have an age limit! For those who don't lie, they, I believe are not able to access Mature areas / islands.

If I personally come across such a place or even if someone invites me somewhere & crude acts are taking place... I "run" (well, actually teleport) back to my home... or I just down right quit that session.

I've not had any problems such as being locked up to where I can't control my computer... or not able to quit the game. Though I have heard some friends have had "grieffers" lock them so they couldn't teleport or quit. (Maybe that's why some think they're computer is being taken over... It's not really. It's just called lag!) If I were to ever get into a situation like that... There's this nice little gadget... we all have it...

It's called the power button! I would even go as so much as to unplug it and / or take the battery out!

So, you see, Second Life is only as bad (OR GOOD) as you make it... Just like the rest of the internet... no... sorry... JUST LIKE THE REST OF THE WORLD!!!

FOR CRYING OUT LOUD... there are other "VIRTUAL" simulations / games out there that are just as bad or FAR worse than Second Life!! (Though I just am having a hard time getting past the "rape room"!!)

So, if you have a problem with me being on Second Life... & you don't understand why I am still there... before you delete me as a contact, please send me a PM & let me know why you think I should NOT be on Second Life.

As for myself & Second Life... I believe if you're careful, like with anything, it can be a great place to hang out with your friends. I still recommend it... As I mentioned a while back... it may help lead me to a Real Life job from home!

See, I was asked to write an article for a CHRISTIAN magazine. It started on SL... but as of this July, it will now be published in REAL LIFE!!

I was asked to write about "Why I am on SL". In this article I mentioned how it started with my RL sister needing help figuring out how to use her avatar... She's there because her REAL LIFE job is seeking a way to use SL to help with their online education. (It's a college she works for.)

I won't mention anymore, because it's in the article... Once it's released I will post more for you, my regular readers! :)

Anyway... If all goes well, that will be a regular feature in the magazine & I will hopefully be compensated. Along with any other articles / stories I write for them. It all hinges upon subscriptions. Nope, I'm not going to use this particular blog to promote to go get a subscription or anything like that! If you want to know more, you know how to reach me!!

WAIT... This ride has only yet to begin!!! There's more.

Since I have your attention, there are some other things I've been wanting to express my opinion on. Again... LONG OVERDUE!! (I don't mean to ever offend anyone... if I do, please know I am just voicing my opinion... Hey, isn't that what a blog is for????) With that said...

Hopefully I won't ramble as much as the above.

My next target of fired up issues... is, the gas prices... Why on earth are we all letting these oil companies get away with it? I know... I know... we have no control... But you know... a change takes only one person to get it started!!

You know that email that circulates all the time asking you to have a "gas out" (boycott) for one day?? ... well, that's not going to hit where it needs to. In the wallet!!

I recently have seen my hubby's idea starting to be circulated. (But of course it's not from him, nor does he get credit... not saying credit is due.)

Anyway... we need to boycott certain gas stations. Since there is not an Exxon or Mobile in every town... I suggest this... find the station in your area that is popular... spread the word to your friends & family to boycott it... & ask them to spread the word too & so on.

Don't just boycott it for one day... but for a WHOLE MONTH.... or even a WHOLE YEAR! They will be forced to lower their price because the demand will go away. And so the other stations will be forced to lower theirs because those who don't know about the boycott will go to the popular station.

I'm not saying go picket the station or anything like that. Just stop using their gas. And if they have more than one station in the area... don't use any of them!

For those who only have 1 station near by... well, I have to think on that one. If you can afford to... go to the next town that doesn't have the same station.

I'm sure you've all heard this... but someone needs to start this & get it going & we all need to STICK WITH IT!!!

Oh, what if the station go down so low you can't help but to buy it from them? Well, my thought on that is... ok, go ahead... but if you see them starting to sneak the price back up... start boycotting again!

I know... what keeps the others from raising their price to meet the demand... Well, in essences... they should actually follow their competitor if they know good business.

Don't expect it a huge drop in price over night... but hopefully it will drop each day or so... Stick with it if you can!

As for my area... since I don't do much driving anymore... so, I will leave it up to hubby, until I hear from someone in my area!

Next... the presidential race... I for one can not wait until the election is completely over with! I am tired of hearing all the squabbling back & forth!! Why do we have to have a 1 Democrat & 1 Republican??? Why not take the top 4 vote getter's from the primaries & let them run in the General Election.

AND why can they NOT tell us who their running mate is going to be?? I tell you what... I bet the Democrats would not have such a hard time choosing if they knew who the VP would be.

I was watching here & there about each of the candidates (both sides)... however, I am not tired of every time I turn around the most of the news is taken up with this Presidential race mumbo jumbo.

Also... what ever happened to having all the primaries on the same day... the 1st Tuesday after the 1st Monday in May??? Growing up, I do not remember problems like we have today. And remember... back then we only had 3 channels... & if the President was on... you were forced to watch him or not watch at all! (Ok, showing my age... but I've never hid it... I am 39!)

I admit... President Bush has made some mistakes in his time in office... HOWEVER... keep this in mind when you're about to cast you ballot... The things he has put into motion have not really begun yet... or will continue no matter who is elected. AND don't you think that Bush is cleaning up the mess that President Clinton left?

I am too tired to go through all the facts... but keep this in mind... the elected usually spends 7 or their 8 years (if elected twice) trying to turn around what is predecessor did. If unfortunate to be re-elected... then it's twice as hard.

Now, as for my choice... I was all for Huckabee... however, he's not "in it anymore". I'd really like to see him pair up with McCain... I think they would make a great team. But that's my pick.

Why am I not for Hillary?... several reasons... & I don't want to go into it right now without facts to support my opinion! If you want to discuss it... please send me a PM... I do not wish to have a political debate on this blog. I don't mind doing it in private.

Why not Obama? Well, honestly when it 1st started, I had thought about switching parties & going with him... but a lot has happened to change my mind. 1 being the fact he refused to cover his heart during the Pledge of Allegiance.

I'm sorry... but if you're going to be a leader of the Nation, then you should act as if you want everyone to act. That was very DISRESPECTFUL in my eyes... as I am sure many others!

Again, please do not get into a debate here... I do ask this... PLEASE do not believe EVERYTHING you read in the newspaper or hear on tv. Especially news clips... because that's what they are just snippets of what they say!

Or even emails you receive... My hubby has received several... & each one says they have the original article linked up... or it was validated by 'Snopes' ... 9 times out of 10... just like virus or hoax emails... they just have that there because if you say it, most people believe it! & they actually hope you do NOT click that link!

SO... if you think something sound too good to be true... or in this case... too awful... then do your own research! Or if you don't want to... then ask a friend to & have them print it out for you or send you the original link!

I did this with one particular email about Obama... & for some reason it just didn't sound like something that would be even printed by a newspaper... Even though the "supposed" article was linked.

Well, I clicked on the link... it went to a newspaper... but it still didn't look right... it was not that "official" looking. SO... I Googled JUST the name of the newspaper... SURE enough... the link was a fake!

They went so far as to give credit to the original article's author... Who in turn had to post a message saying his story was hijacked & altered!

Though the email was very close to the original... there were a couple points that did make me question Obama even more. They maybe true... but it was NOT in this article!

Ok, conspiracy theorists... find me proof on this one... I had heard that that the Muslim groups, that are against America, (not saying all) have taught their followers that the best way to bring the USA down is to get a Muslim in office ... in the highest position... The President! Then I am "told" that Barack Obama was Muslim... even if for a short time. But some say once a Muslim, always one... kind of like the mob.

Again, I do not know if this is true but I thought I'd share it with you. Maybe that will get you all to think twice... or at least do you're on research!

Hey, maybe someone will find something that will convince me to change parties.... I don't know... I just ask you do not start a debate here on my blog.... I'll be more than happy to talk with anyone via PM. Then when we both come to an agreement... we can post it in tandem on our own blogs.

I however, can't stress it enough... I can't prove any of that about Barack Obama... I have not read enough of his site. I just can't get passed the deal of him not putting his hand to his heart during the Pledge of Allegiance when he was working! I've never heard an apology or a reason why he did it... or in this case, didn't.

Go to the candidates OFFICIAL website & read how they stand on each of the issues. I ask you ALL to PLEASE RESEARCH before you vote! I'd also ask if you could educate all your not internet friends of what you find to help them decide.

Again... DO NOT JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER!!!

I sure hope I didn't offend anyone... I don't like to... & that's why I've kept quiet on several of these subjects. But I am so fired up, I just had to mention it all & get it all out!

Feel free to discuss this... but please, keep it clean, nice & no "bashing" anyone... it will only serve one purpose. Hurt feelings... which we know in this day & age can lead to more dire consequences!!

(Oh, you may thinking I'm bashing the gas companies... I'm not, I'm just merely suggesting how we can help ourselves & show them they can still make a profit!!)

With all that said, let's take a moment... before I go on to personal items...

Here are some topics I hope to cover in my next blog... My trip to California; my fight with Chiari Malformation & Cavs - Rise UP / 23c Pizza Deal.

For now... that's all... I must not have slept well last night... because I'm about to fall asleep now! Since I have Praise Team practice tonight... I need to lay down now!!

Hope you enjoyed the ride! :)

(There's one problem with doing long blogs like this... I get so tired of looking at it, that I don't want to go back & proof read for grammar mistakes.... Thank Heavens for spell check! LOL) :) :)

13 comments:

  1. Oh... by the way... my absence here on Multiply has NOTHING to do with Second Life!... As a matter of fact, I've been scare around there too!
    It's been personal reasons. I'll go a little bit into it later on!! :)

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  2. i admit i was shocked at the 'virtual rape' room i heard about in SL, but i will not delete anyone from my contact list just because they go there. (i read the same thing you did, btw) i personally have no opinion on the site...but you are right. all sites on the internet have the potential of being abused!

    i just had to share my little opinion!!!

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  3. Right on sista! LOL. Night night, sleep tight xoxoxo

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  4. As an adult everyone has the choice as to what they watch, or participate in... but there are a lot of minors who can and do get on to site's that they shouldn't. I have never been on SL and have no desire to, but that is my choice.. yes a rape room is just plain old nasty!! and in my opinion people who like that stuff need their head examined, but I'm sure the rest of the site has nothing to do with that kind of stuff. People wander why this world is going "to heck in a hand basket" well when they took prayer out of school how fast did the school shootings start rising?? we've taken God out of so many things no wander this world needs help..

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  5. Totally agree with you Passion Wolf. Kids doing the shooting need God in their life. You can see the emptyness in their eyes. It just shows that they have never been shown God's love or didn't quit grasp it. Anyway, I agree with you PW. And most of your blog LH. Peace! :)

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  6. No it is not well said, LH, and if you allow me, I’ll tell you why. I don’t believe “P” was advocating the closing down of SL in entirety. I read from her blog that she was disgusted with the fact that such an area existed within SL. Because she hasn’t been there and taken a look, she wasn’t aware that SL consists of a vast area with lots of islands and specialised groups, I think she thought you all must know about the fantasy rape area and maybe couldn’t understand how you could stay there knowing it existed.

    Her grandchildren use the internet and I’m positive her emotional reaction came from an inner fear that one of them (or any child) might stumble into this sort of sleaze. We know from YahooAnswers that very few children gave their real age, and this left them open to approaches from adults pretending to be the same age – which leads on to grooming. We also know from YahooAnswers that sites where children are present need to be moderated … although Yahoo never did give in to our requests for moderation. I fear SL may well be the same.

    My own contention was that the dressing up of avatars and the playing house part of SL, along with the fact that the avatars could fly (all good clean fun) was an attractive feature of SL for children. When a site has children within it the owners of that site have a duty of care to those kids. Therefore, to allow such areas was negligent to say the least, since no proper moderation of age seemed to be undertaken when I tried out the site (admittedly for a very short 15 minutes or so) … but when I entered my details there were no checks.

    I don’t care if you, or anyone, choose to have an account with SL and I am certainly not saying you are wrong to be there … but I do feel that the site should have good moderation and that the porn and sleaze areas should be shut down because of the children. If SL chose to have children of 13-years plus join, then they have to be responsible in what goes into that site. Adults, as you say, can take care of their own preferences for smut. Even so, I do not think that a fantasy rape concept is a healthy one even for adults. In fact, it is sick. And your defence that porn was all over the internet and TV, so therefore maybe we should shut down the whole kit and caboodle, was a spurious one. Do you really think that Dancing With The Stars is comparable to people fantasising how they would like to be raped?

    Go with God Becca.

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  7. I can't add anything to what sumax said. She has given a well thought out response and said what I would say.

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  8. well ground and well considered, sumax ... thank you.

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  9. Sumax, I am sure Lady Harley agrees with what you say. Her biggest deal was that a so called "friend" removed her from her contact list because she belonged to SL. That is crazy. This "friend" did not even discuss with LH before her rant on her about SL. Lady Harley is a strong Christian woman who DID NOT know of these things. She was there in a bible study type group. As far as age limits and what not, the WHOLE darn internet has things like that on it. This multiply site is the easiest site to get an account on that I have ever seen. AND I know that there are sites on here that are porn related. NO age restrictions here. So lets shut down multiply too okay. And while we are at it, if anyone wants to stay on multiply knowing there are porn groups here lets remove them as a friend. RIDICULOUS if you ask me. That is basically what LH is trying to say.

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  10. I need to clear up some things that were said below... Nothing bad... just a little misunderstanding about when I was talking about Dancing with the Stars & etc... However, I'm afraid it may lead to another ramble... so, I will do it in a blog! :) :) :) Keep an eye out :)

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  11. Well with any site,problem will come up, why shut it down,just find a better way to check id or take some of bad thing out,no one should be hurt,or made to shut down!!

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  12. Well, to put it simply... I just meant that if TV is banned, then it gets rid of shows like DWTS and Extreme Makeover Home Edition... Just saying unfortunately there will always be bad things around along side the good. (or in this way... if you ban the internet because of all the porn... then we'll loose things like Multiply.)

    Ok, if you're all wondering why I keep coming back to this... it's only because of how the whole issue of the one contact dealt with it. Just was a bit taken back for being condemned for something I didn't personally do... and in the manner it was handled... (it was abrupt, out of the blue, with no warning whatsoever AND full of foul language!!) Anyone who knows me knows that I too despise those types of things... but also, that type of language! SO, it just got under my skin a bit.

    Well, I'm to the point of... So be it. & To each her own.

    As much as I hate those types of areas on SL... I am still there to help minister...

    One last note... if it's shut down, then it's one less place for us to teach others about the love of Jesus!

    Hope all that makes sense now. Thanks all for listening! :)

    What, no comments on my political rants? LOL! KIDDING! :)

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